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Should I offer myself to men like my friend does

Birdy,

I know a girl who has started to ask men for money in return for 'favors' as she calls them. She has recently bought a whole lot of stuff which I really like but can't afford. She says she enjoys what she does, and there's only an upside. Now she has offered me a chance to do the same by giving me the details of various sites she's on. I'm broke. I don't want to, but there doesn't seem a downside. What do you think? Briana, NM


Hey Briana,

It's important to consider the potential consequences and ethical implications of engaging in such activities. While your friend may say there's only an upside, it's essential to think about the long-term effects on your well-being, self-respect, and future opportunities.

Engaging in transactions like this can have serious emotional, physical, and legal consequences. It can also negatively impact your self-esteem and self-worth.

Remember, there are alternative ways to overcome financial challenges without compromising your values and integrity. Consider looking for part-time work, exploring scholarship opportunities, or seeking financial assistance to help with your current situation.

If you're feeling pressured by your friend or tempted by the idea of quick money, talk to someone you trust about what you're going through. Reach out to friends, family, or even a counselor who can offer guidance and support.

Always prioritize your well-being and make choices that align with your values and long-term goals. Remember, you are worth more than any material possessions, and there are other paths to financial stability and success.

Take care, Briana, and trust yourself to make the right decision for your future.

Wishing you strength and clarity,

Birdy

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